"There are young girls who plunge into erotic experiences, one after another, in order to relieve their sexual anxiety; they hope in this way to rid themselves of their curiosity and their obsessive interest in sex; but their actions retain a theoretical cast that makes them as unreal as the fantasies in which others anticipate the future. To give oneself through defiance, through fear, or through puritanical rationalism is not to experience genuine erotic reality: only a substitute without much risk or savor is thus obtained. The sexual act is free from anxiety or shame because in such cases emotion remains superficial, and the flesh is not transported with desire. These deflowered virgins continue to be young girls and it is very likely that when they do come to grips with a sensual and masterful man they will offer virginal resistance. In the meantime, they remain still in a kind of awkward age; caresses tickle them, kisses often make them laugh, they look on physical love as a game and, if they happen not to be in a mood for such diversion, a lover's demands soon seem coarse and importunate: they retain feelings of disgust, phobias, adolescent modesty. If they never get beyond this stage - as, according to American men, many American women never do - they will spend their lives in a state of semifrigidity. True sexual maturity is to be found only in the woman who fully accepts carnality in sex desire and pleasure."
Donald just got treated.
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